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Friday, December 29, 2006
3:14 PM

The festive period

Blogged by.. nicryanlim @ 3:14 PM

Hey guys! Havent blogged in a really long time. I realised that lots of, all rather everyone who blogs, vets his/her entry after finishing them. However, just wanna let you know that my blogs are unedited, and i try to keep it as frank, as in-your-face as possible. Hence, the language and the typos.

Its the festive season again, the time of the year where the lonely feel even more lonely, the rich get poorer, the poor get poorer, the loved gets more loved, the beautiful get beautifu-er, the fat get fatter, and the realisation that all of our past year's resolutions have not been met yet again.

"what have you accomplished this year?". In life, we tend to just run through it, feeling busy, stressed, routine, feeling up through "achievements", and going through periods of downs. Look back, and wonder, are all these significant at the end of the year? What has happened the past year? Am i going to go through this year after year? Sure, we have aced exams, fucked more, drank more, made more friends, but have we become a better person out of it? or a lesser one? Is these all there is to life?

Have you enriched someone's else life? Have you became the source of happiness to someone? Have you found faith in religion? Have you found something that you are truly happy in doing? And if your answers to these questions are yes, is this year considered a fruitful year for you? i think not.

That's the nature of humans. We are always striving for perfection. But perfection is an illusion, not achievable in our lifetime. Perfection is a dream, created by memories of past granduer and seemingly glorious achievements we had. My friends, most of us are 19-22 now, 1/4 of our lives has came and gone just like that. We have gotten our degrees, our A levels, our diplomas, our gfs/bfs, but so? Next we will be striving for the car, the job, the house, and then?

I guess life's a hard journey. And when i pass away, do i want to remember it as a hard journey? When i lie on my deathbed, do i wanna sigh thinking that life's been long. The importance of life changes with age, what we wanna achieve is never ending and often changing. We may gain satisfaction and happiness out of one thing, but this feeling is temporary, and fleeting. The next day, it may no longer be of significance to us. So how then, is happiness is life gained? Or rather, how should we live our lifes so that it is "enriched"?

To me, living life is about enriching the life's of others, and not one's own life. Because more often than not, it is impossible to enrich "completely" one's own life, but possible to enrich the life's of others.
So go out there, be more selfless, be more generous, put a smile on the face of the person next to you, hug them, kiss them, hold them , comfort them, joke with them, feel for them, think like them, be less arrogant, be less unapproachable. And when they say i love you back, tt's what life is about. And that is what the festive period is about..isn't it?

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